We had toured a particular Montessori here in Coeur d’Alene and had mixed feelings about it. It seemed a little disorganized and not nearly as awesome as the one he left on
Maui, but we were feeling a bit desperate, considering our options.
I decided to ask my Spirit Guides about the school.
When you are making a decision and consulting your Guides, it’s important that you know Guides give you very specific answers to very specific questions. When I consult my
Guides, I ask questions and find out how an option I may be considering is aligned (or not) with what my desired outcome is. It’s very specific.
In this case, I asked, “How aligned is Lucas attending that Montessori school (I used the school’s actual name when I asked) with our desired outcome of having him in an
environment where he is happy, challenged academically and feels safe?”
For that, I received that it was 100% aligned with that desired outcome.
So, based on that one question, I decided to go ahead and enroll him.
When we went to drop him off, my intuition told me not to do it. I felt a knot in my stomach and a wave of anxiety and depression came over me. It was not a good feeling. I
didn’t think he would be unsafe or anything, but that it was not a good fit and I was making a mistake.
Based on what my Guides told me though, I ignored my intuition and did it anyway. After all, it was 100% aligned with my desired outcome and who am I to question my Guides?
Wrong. Rookie mistake.
Within 3 days, we pulled him from that school. He hated it. My happy go lucky kid who makes friends fast and loves to be engaged with others was coming home sad and not
wanting to go to school. I felt horrible. Questions raced through my head:
Why did I listen to my Guides and not my intuition?
Did my Guides steer me wrong?
Why was this not the right school for him when my Guides said it was?
Simple. I asked the wrong question, ignored my own intuition, and let the information I received (by asking the wrong question) from my Guides influence my decision. I let my
Guides ‘boss me around’, so to speak and it wasn’t even their fault!
What I could have done, was ask my original question and include time frames. For example, I could have asked if he would feel safe and happy and challenged in the long-term.
Then, ask that same question, but with the short-term. Maybe even ask a third question by inquiring about other schools I might consider (both long and short-term). Then, look
at the information I received from my Spirit Guides and make my own decision.
After kicking myself for all of the above, we ended up finding a fantastic school for him that he loves. He is thriving, happy, learning, making friends, and he comes home
smiling every day.
The advice you receive from your Guides should never replace your own intuition for decisions you make. You never know if the advice they are giving is in response to you
asking an unclear question, if the question isn’t specific enough, or if there is something else entirely affecting the advice they are giving at that moment. Working with
your Spirit Guides is a tool to put in your toolbox and use as you see fit. It is not a crystal ball with future-telling capabilities. Use it thoughtfully and at your own
Like I said, your Spirit Guides are not the boss of you...you are!