Most often, we form Negative Energetic Cords with people who we have interacted with (now or in the past) in a significant way, such as:
Spouses (current and former)
Co-workers (current and former)
Ex-Relationships or Sexual Partners
Someone who has violated us in a physical or emotional way
We can also form Negative Energetic Cords with traumatic events from our past, such as a sexual assault. Surprisingly, we can even form these cords with groups of people or even a
famous person we have never met (such as a political figure) if that person's actions or personality affects us deeply.
We can be affected by these cords in a variety of ways, including:
Feeling so emotionally connected to an ex to the point where you are unable to attract a new, healthy relationship in your life
Experiencing a lack of confidence in your abilities and talents (especially in the workplace)
Consistently being defensive when around certain people
Repeating patterns in friendships, family relationships, and romantic relationships
Clinging on to relationships for fear of abandonment
Attracting negative people or events in your life on a continuous basis
Holding on to anger, pain, or hurt from the past
Not speaking your truth or defending your position to another out of fear
Feeling drained emotionally or physically after interacting with a person, on a regular basis
1. If I cut a Negative Energetic Cord with someone will I still be able to have a relationship with them? If so, how will that relationship be
Absolutely! We only cut Negative Energetic Cords with others, as Positive Energetic Cords cannot be cut. I commonly cut
cords with spouses (for example) who want to stay married but would like to clear out some of the negative 'junk' that comes with that relationship. This rings true for other relationships
The only way the relationship might be affected is that you may respond to the person you cut with differently after the cord cutting than before the cord
cutting. For example, in the past a negative comment from that person may have ended in a huge fight, whereas now you may be able to brush it off and not let it bother you.
2. Can I cut a Negative Energetic Cord with a deceased person?
Energy (including the energy contained within any cord) transcends space and time, so cutting a cord with someone who has crossed over can be as helpful and as much
of a release as cutting a cord with someone who is living.
3. Will the other person know I have cut a cord? Will they feel it? Does it get cut on their side?
Cords are cut on our side only. The other person may have a Negative Energetic Cord to you (and they likely do!) but they would need to have it cut on their
side in order for it to be helpful for them. They will not know you had a cord cut, unless you tell them.
4. Can't I just ask Archangel Michael to cut all my cords at once and be done with it?
No. You can ask for all your psychic ties to be cut, but to cut a Negative Energetic Cord there are many steps involved in order to sever it
properly. Working with a properly trained Cord Cutting Professional who can facilitate healing with the help of the Divine will ensure the Negative Energetic Cord is cut
properly and permanently.
5. Can a Negative Energetic Cord form again with the same person?
No. Once a cord is properly cut, it cannot form again.
6. How can I expect to feel after an Energetic Cord Cutting Session with Shelly?
Everyone experiences something different during and after a session. Some people feel an immediate energetic shift as the cord is being cut. Some are very emotional
a few days after as they release all the energy they had been holding on to. Others don't notice much of anything right away and then realize that they rarely think about the person or event
they cut the cord with, and when they do, they no longer feel the emotions of hurt or anger. Everyone responds differently to each cord that is cut and is releasing different negative energies
contained within that cord. This is also why we only cut one cord at a time.
"I cannot recommend Shelly enough. Her work is thorough and deep. She clearly has studied has practiced cord-cutting extensively. I am a
healer myself so to find a healer to work with is extremely challenging. Shelly's ability to tune in to me and my issues were both precise and compassionate. Her professional
boundaries and ability to go between etheric and material planes is exceptional and I feel that she successfully helped disconnect some negative cords I had struggled with for many
years. I feel very grateful for her work. Thank you."
~ Heather Cohen
San Francisco, CA
"Shelly is the real deal. I honestly doubted initially as I’d had a chord cutting previously that was to no avail. However, 2 days after the session, I cried
uncontrollably releasing the energy. I highly recommend her."
~ Melissa Gottschalk
"I had a Cord Cutting Session with Shelly in January as I was finding it hard to move on from a past relationship. The session with Shelly made me feel
lighter almost instantly and over the next few weeks, I noticed I was back to my usual bubby self and was not tied down by the past experiences. Shelly is a wonderful person, and I trusted her to
help me heal from the word go."